You are relieved that your divorce is nearing the end in Illinois. However, now you are faced with the challenge of continuing to parent your children even though you are not the custodial parent. This thought may overwhelm you. How are you supposed to show your love when you cannot see your child every day? Will your children still make time for you despite your living in another place? Fortunately, there are things you can do to be an effective and involved parent despite the fact that you have been required to relocate.
According to Live About, one of the most important things you should remember is to be creative about the ways you demonstrate your love to your children. By using various methods of spending time with your children, you can maintain the excitement and enjoyment of continuing a healthy relationship. Some of the things you can do to stay involved include the following:
- Ask questions: Whenever you get the chance to speak with your children, ask them about the day-to-day activities they are a part of. Ask them what they enjoy and who they have been spending their time with. Be interested in learning more about them.
- Keep communication open: Despite the difficulties, maintain an open line of communication with your ex. Doing so can help your children to feel comfortable about approaching either parent in regards to time spent with the other parent.
- Be consistent: If you say you are going to call your child, make that call. If you promise to visit, make sure you visit. Consistency will help reiterate to your child that you truly care and are invested in pursuing a relationship with him or her.
The information in this article is intended for educational purposes only and should not be taken as legal advice.
